The Feeling of Richness
Our relationship with money and happiness
Experiencing a rich and fulfilling life is a personal journey, as it is subjective and influenced by individual perspectives. Feeling content when experiencing prosperity, abundance, or being in a fulfilling family and relationship are just a few examples of what people often perceive as richness in life.
The emotions we experience in the presence of abundance, whether fleeting or enduring, can evoke a profound sense of fulfillment and achievement. It's that intangible, inexplicable "je ne sais quoi" that is very personal and indefinable.
While money can provide a certain level of comfort and security, its direct connection to happiness is more complex. So, to what extent do we seek wealth because of social pressure, competition, or caring about others' views of our lifestyle versus how much is genuinely driven by our own inner desires?
As individuals' income grows, they often spend easier with well-earned money, sometimes without explicitly considering their core values and priorities. This tendency is especially prevalent among those who enjoy the privilege of not needing to engage in strict budgeting or deliberate decision-making concerning allocating their rushing funds. However, how much is enough? Or does achieving happiness involve striving for a balanced and holistic approach while pursuing meaningful goals and values?
Of course, I don't want to impose an opinion on what could make people happy, but Instead, I would like to explore the essence of the feeling of richness. We all make money to live more comfortably and do what we love. I can't help but wonder if we knew what makes us truly happy— despite having excessive wealth, would we prioritize doing those things from the beginning?
I am a conscious spender; even so, when I was still very dedicated and engaged at my well-paid corporate job, I would effortlessly lose track of my expenses. Toward the end of deciding my career path, I wasn't even happy about my lifestyle most of the time. The weekly nail grooming and up-to-date fashion brand merchandise didn't impact my happiness.
As an avid traveler, I soon discovered that only specific things, regardless of their "face values," truly satisfied me. As a result, now having fewer possessions holds greater meaning and significance in my life. I still treat myself and Indulge, but only with things that hold importance to me.
I feel fortunate to have found my true inner happiness, which lies in embracing minimalism at its core. It infuses my life with peace and tranquility, motivating me to dedicate my time to activities I love and get away from the mundane life I used to surround myself with.
To me, richness could be traveling comfortably and frequently, surrendering to simple things, and allowing myself to prioritize and nurture my physical, mental, and emotional well-being.
When I travel to new countries with diverse cultures, I find great pleasure in observing street performers, live music, and the vibrant flow of passersby. It allows me to immerse myself in the local atmosphere and appreciate the unique expressions of art and the dynamic energy of the surroundings. All that cost little to nothing to experience. I love exploring the city's architecture and enjoy visiting local parks and promenades, witnessing people who appreciate gatherings, and sharing an appreciation for open spaces.
Finding joy in simple pleasures comes from slowing down and being mindful of what really matters. If the desire to earn more money motivates us to achieve these pleasures, that can be a valid pursuit. However, that enjoyment and fulfillment should not be postponed but embraced in the present moment.
The traits of cherishing a simple life remain ingrained within me even upon returning home, bringing about a lasting transformation. It enables me to prioritize engaging in meaningful activities and experiences rather than seeking to impress others.
I have embraced minimalism, and it has influenced my mindset and choices, allowing me to prioritize what truly matters while shedding unnecessary distractions and possessions.
Focusing on recognizing the source of my satisfaction has provided me with clarity, calmness, intentionality, and contentment. It even profoundly influenced my relationships with friends and everyone I interact with. It has allowed me to cultivate meaningful connections by focusing on genuine experiences and shared values rather than material possessions.
Some things are invaluable and cannot be bought. We can lead a more purposeful life by balancing work and play, giving and taking, and prioritizing what counts. Material possessions may bring temporary satisfaction, but the richness of life also lies in meaningful relationships, personal growth, memorable experiences, and for some, contributing to the well-being of others, essentially doing what we love to do.
Perhaps we could pause amidst the daily hustle and bustle, take a moment, and reflect: What brings us a sense of richness?
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